Why did he show up? He was not welcome back in my house after the incident. I told him to leave or I would call the police. He said “Not until I get my vase!” he started rummaging around in my stuff. I run over grab his arm and try to pull him out of my house. He kicked me and said he would get that vase if it was the last thing he did, I refused to give it to him and went to my kitchen to find my phone. He started throwing things around. He whipped open my cupboards and rummaged through them, he found the vase.