In my head I talk to myself about
      What happened
But some small part adds
      To me
As in “what happened to me”
As if I were prone
      Passive
A recipient of the action
Rather than a participant
No active voice

When he asked if I wanted to I said

      “Yes,”
Instead of
      “Yes.”
I live and die by commas
A million things can happen between quotation marks

I think about the sentence structure of “he unzipped my jeans”
       How do I talk about this the right way?

       I did say yes after all
Subject, verb, indirect object
The subject is always him and the object is always me